Monday 24 June 2013

Sexual, Psychological predator.

I feel strongly about this type of man, because I have met more than one. They are dangerous, and women must know that they exist.

It is a new creature lurking the streets. They cause even more damage than the cheater, the player, the liar.

This man premeditates the psychological destruction of your emotional well being. His goal is to tear you down to the nothing that he feels he is.

Is this the new personal goal with unwell people, to get someone to commit suicide over them.

Be very careful, especially if you are in a weak, and vulnerable state.

This man is smart, charming, good looking, a real ladies man. He comes across as insecure, shy, not sure of himself, or if you'd be interested in him.

He flirts but in a subtle, romantic, classy way. All while drawing you into his web of destruction, and lies.

He studies you to see what kind of man you would fall for, then he becomes that person. He'll dress the part, act the part, tell you he's all yours, that he's in love with you, and just when you let your guard down, fall head over heels, give him your all, he starts to pull back.

He starts to flirt with every woman in sight. He's all over anyone he can get his hands on, right in front of you.

It hurts, it cuts like a knife.

All of a sudden all the time he had for you is gone. He's busy, he's working, he needs time with the guy's. He's pushing you away and your head is spinning. It hurts, you're feeling vulnerable, but you just can't get away from him, he's under your skin, and every time you say that's it, he throws you a bone, and you jump like pavlov's dog.

You want out, you know you should get out, but you can't.

The worst is still to come.

All of sudden you see him seriously flirting with one particular girl, right in front of you. They're gazing into each other's eye's, sneaking away for lunch breaks. He say's it's all in your head, you feel like you're going crazy. Then you run into her sneaking into his place, as you are leaving. You feel like someone just ripped your heart out, your stomach is in your throat, your lungs won't fill with air, it feels like you're going to pass out, and throw up all at the same time. Emotions run wild, and you are standing on the verge of a complete breakdown.

Then you find out he's done this before. How, God, Angels? I don't know, but somehow you're stopped at the shopping mall by a stranger who saw you with this person, and she's scared to tell you this, but she takes a chance. She's afraid of him, but she tells you anyway, that he did terrible things to her friend when they were together. The same things he's doing to you, the same game, the same scenario.

She tells you he has kids, and a live in girlfriend.

You feel broken. You wonder where you're going to get the strength to pick yourself up, and move on.
I wouldn't wish this man on anyone.

They give you passion, love, and sex, and then ration it once they have you hooked, and you keep going back when they give you the slightest attention, because he's like crack is to an addict.

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